又比如清虚不雅打醮，第一天就有冯将军、赵侍郎等“一应远亲近友、世家相与，齐来直立”。贾母嫌惊动太大，第二天就不肯来了。淌若再去（打醮是要打三天的），也说不定哪家女眷也闻声而来，也算是个交际契机。
再比如赖尚荣选官宴客，贾良友下齐去了，探春和“他们家犬子说闲聊儿”，亦然个交际——什么？你说赖家犬子算不上“贵女”？嘿，赖尚荣是“一州的州官”，他这妹妹或犬子或侄女即是妥妥的官家姑娘。最多是根基比不上贾府，又怎么不算“贵女”了？
不外，总的来说，贾家姑娘们外出游玩交际的契机长短常少的，远不像《知否》里动不动就打马球、赛茶会，更不会像某些穿越网文里，真实还闹出什么“才艺展示”来。要否则，什么叫“大门不出，二门不迈”呢？你认为古代贵族妇女，真像网文肥皂剧里那样开脱？
林如海之是以见原把犬子送到沉以外的岳母家，原因之一即是黛玉莫得女伴。上了一年学，惟一“两个伴读丫鬟”，连个“附学念书”的亲戚一又友家女孩子齐莫得。到贾敏一死，黛玉就愈加孤独孤身一人，到贾府与姊妹们相伴故意于她的成长——林如海“虽有几房姬妾”，在阿谁时间弗成虽然算数。
薛家之是以清闲在贾府久居，也有这方面的原因。虽然亦然为了继续薛蟠。不外薛蟠依然是阿谁表情了，宝钗的出息愈加进军。和三春黛玉在一齐，本人就构建起一个微型的交际圈子。况兼借助贾府的平台，还有契机自由南安太妃这么的贵族妇女——南安太妃的地位，是比贾府更慷慨的。
连岫烟、李绮、李纹、喜鸾、四姐儿清闲住在贾家，也有雷同的原理。岫烟宁可住在迎春屋里，隐忍婆子丫鬟们的打单，也不肯意回我方家去跟父母一齐住；李绮李纹随着母亲，“李婶母女虽去，然偶然亦来住三五日不定”；“因命凤姐留住喜鸾四姐儿玩两日再去”“他两个母亲素日齐承凤姐的关注，也巴不得一声儿。他两个也清闲在园内玩耍”。
因为封建礼教给这些贵族姑娘们太多继续，是以上头所举的这些，即是她们仅有的“出去游玩”、“和别的贵女交际”的契机了。","del":0,"gnid":"9fc95a752237d9707","img_data":[{"flag":2,"img":[{"desc":"","height":"410","title":"","url":"http://p0.img.360kuai.com/t012e98b205d0c86062.jpg","width":"600"},{"desc":"","height":"434","title":"","url":"http://p0.img.360kuai.com/t0124eb5faaffe3aa8f.jpg","width":"600"},{"desc":"","height":"421","title":"","url":"http://p0.img.360kuai.com/t015ad6dd499365ed5e.jpg","width":"600"},{"desc":"","height":"399","title":"","url":"http://p0.img.360kuai.com/t01ba0260cad0a6c30f.jpg","width":"600"},{"desc":"","height":"450","title":"","url":"http://p0.img.360kuai.com/t017d9b9837b25888a9.jpg","width":"600"},{"desc":"","height":"400","title":"","url":"http://p0.img.360kuai.com/t01a2d1d09fee3ae9f6.jpg","width":"600"},{"desc":"","height":"400","title":"","url":"http://p0.img.360kuai.com/t01ef24cdd37d0ef90c.jpg","width":"600"}]}],"original":0,"pat":"art_src_0,sexamb,disu_label,fts0,sts0","powerby":"pika","pub_time":1716448639000,"pure":"","rawurl":"http://zm.news.so.com/29aedcbc8042d6578bd90ec6acc2a134","redirect":0,"rptid":"ec55e9cf3eca8a97","rss_ext":[],"s":"t","src":"栖鸿看红楼","tag":[{"clk":"kculture_1:薛蟠","k":"薛蟠","u":""},{"clk":"kculture_1:凤姐","k":"凤姐","u":""}],"title":"贾家姑娘为什么不出去游玩，和别的贵女们交际？","type":"zmt","wapurl":"http://zm.news.so.com/29aedcbc8042d6578bd90ec6acc2a134","ytag":"文化:东谈主文:古典名著","zmt":{"brand":{},"cert":"文化范围创作家","desc":"栖鸿看红楼，专注红楼几十年","fans_num":402,"id":"996584680","is_brand":"0","name":"栖鸿看红楼","new_verify":"7","pic":"https://p0.img.360kuai.com/t01c5b5948f2cd4f49f.jpg","real":1,"textimg":"https://p9.img.360kuai.com/bl/0_3/t017c4d51e87f46986f.png","verify":"0"},"zmt_status":0}","errmsg":"","errno":0}凯西22-23赛季代表巴萨出场43次b2b 足球b2b 足球，贡献了3个进球和3次助攻。
